Finding Identity in the Land of Mursik, Tea, and Tenderness

"What happens when a high-flying corporate strategist trades her stilettos for the rolling hills of Nandi?"

In the concrete jungle of Nairobi, I knew exactly who I was: a woman of strategy, checklists, and boardrooms. But dating a Kalenjin man is a different kind of boardroom—one where the rules aren't written in manuals, but whispered in the steam of morning tea and hidden in the silence of ancestral elders.

The Subtle Art of Dating a Kalenjin Man is more than just a romance; it is a first-person journey of a modern woman unmasking her own identity. From the initial "Chamgei" to the high-stakes negotiations of the Koito, this story explores the delicate bridge between who we are in the city and who we become when the village calls us home.

Inside this Story, You’ll Discover:

• The Cultural Code: Navigate the unspoken etiquette of Kalenjin households—from the significance of the "jacket" to the sacred ritual of Mursik.

• The Modern Duality: A relatable, witty, and moving account of balancing professional ambition with the deep-rooted traditions of the Rift Valley.

• The Art of the Vetting: What it really feels like to sit across from a Kogo (Grandmother) and prove you are more than just your corporate title.

• Identity & Belonging: A beautiful reflection on how we find "home" in a partner’s heritage without losing our own.

"It’s not about manipulation; it’s about alignment."

Whether you are dating into the culture, curious about the traditions of the Nandi people, or simply looking for a story about finding tenderness in unexpected places, this book is your guide.

Product Details:

• Format: Digital E-book (PDF/ePub) and a physical copies available for deliveries within nairobi and country-wide .

• Includes: 10 Narrative Chapters + A Comprehensive Nandi Lexicon/Glossary.

• Length: 100 Pages of immersive storytelling.

Secure your copy today and take the journey from the boardroom to the boma.